That’s fair - so it’s important when we say IPFS good, System Remark bad, we are clear on which part of the problem we are talking about.
System remarks do at least make it a local problem, rather than a global one.
The only solution I can see is if we encourage personal servers within a bounded collective, we had some of this debate in the back and forth in Rethinking The Road to Decentralisation. and then in Data Storage and Availability.
A core reason for pushing proposals this way is to press on the problem so we can work on ideas / approaches.